Who created it?

  Hi, I’m Cathleen—licensed psychotherapist, creator of Clever & Calm, and someone who knows firsthand how confusing it can feel to be misunderstood.

Growing up neurodivergent, I spent a lot of time trying to figure out the “right” way to say things, connect with others, and manage emotions that often felt too big. I practiced social interactions like they were scripts, memorized lines from TV shows, and watched people closely—trying to crack the code of what made someone “fit in.”

Even with the best of intentions, my words didn’t always land the way I hoped. I often felt stuck—like I was missing the tools to be understood, even when I was trying my best.

That feeling never really left me, but it did inspire something: the belief that every kid deserves a chance to learn these skills in a way that feels safe, playful, and empowering.

Clever & Calm grew from that belief.

Through years of hands-on experience as a therapist, working with children and families in homes, hospitals, schools, and locked psychiatric units, I saw the same patterns over and over again: miscommunication, big emotions, and good people struggling to connect. I realized kids need opportunities to practice emotional intelligence—not just be corrected when they fall short.

That’s why I create tools that help both children and adults learn together. Games, stories, and activities designed to build social-emotional skills while strengthening relationships. Tools that invite connection instead of conflict.

Clever & Calm is for the kids who feel misunderstood.
For the adults who want to help, but aren’t sure how.
For the moments when things feel a little too big, and you just need a way in.

I’m so glad you’re here.